Friday, January 30, 2009

Yesterday, Oh What a Day

Yesterday was such a great day for me and Spencer! She was back to her old self, no tantrums, or biting; she was all kisses and hugs from morning til night. It was so nice to have my old girl back, you have no idea! Even thought it was really cold outside, and she refuses to keep a hood on, she had a great time playing with her new pink car.






At first she was a little scared, and she kept going backwards instead of forwards, but then she LOVED it! It has an attachment in the back so that I can push her if I want to, and she thought that was great. When she wanted me to push her faster, she would bang her hands on the steering wheel and laugh. She especially liked it when I would do a wheelie. Sometimes it's so easy to please her!









Fierce concentration! At first she was gripping the wheel so hard, her knuckles turned white.






Hair in face, but happy! I know the saying is a happy mom is a happy baby, but not for me. When she's happy, I'm happy and when she's upset, I'm upset. But yesterday was great.


Shake it Like a Polaroid Picture

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Brownies for the Kitchen Challenged





They are so good and if I can do it, trust me, you can do it!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

How I Plan to Stimulate the Economy Through Shopping

I recognize that it might seem a tad ridiculous to be wanting anything in this current economic climate and especially so soon after Christmas, but it never hurts to just look! Plus, someone needs to stimulate the market, right?

I don't actually plan on buying any of these items right now, I'm currently stalking them online, waiting for the prices to drop. So which these items is your favorite? Which one(s) would you buy first?







My kitchen is red, thus I need a red KitchenAid. Haha, okay, NEED may not be the correct word, but I really WANT one. I'm pretty sure that if you buy this one in February, the proceeds go to the American Heart Association, so it would be a win-win situation for everyone- except my bank account. But this is A LOT more likely to become mine one day than the Vita-Mix- see below.







The Vita-Mix. Alas, it's just wishful thinking that I will ever be able to afford it. If you ever watch the commercials for it, you'll want it too!







Anthro lamp





Magnetic Chalk Paint! How cool is that? My plan is to paint Spencer's toy chest with this and then she can put stuff up there and write on it in chalk. I think it will be really great when we are practicing her letters and words. You can see an example of what I'm talking about HERE.


The Audi Q7- A Hybrid SUV. Man oh man do I want this one!! It's not even sold in the US yet, so not only is it fiscally impossible to own it, it's ACTUALLY impossible. I really need a new car, well new to me, as I am without a car of my own due to the uninsured driver who totaled my car last year. My parents have given me their 2002 Ford Explorer, 150,000 miles, to drive for now, but it's on it's last leg of life. The alternator just ate my brand new battery up in just 2 days, 25 miles of driving, so it needs to be replaced AND it's quite possible that it needs a new transmission.

Now that I have Spencer, car safety is the most important thing I'm looking for, then comes gas mileage and exterior design. The Q7, the non-hybrid sold in the US, has consistently been listed as one of the safest cars available. I would really like a hybrid SUV, especially with the constant gas price fluctuations; and of course I'm trying to be environmentally responsible

Do any of you have an recommendations for a safe, hybrid, doesn't break the bank, SUV? It doesn't have to be an SUV, but it does need to be roomy enough to cart all of our stuff, especially things like her stroller, etc.

I really wish they made a hybrid Volvo, that would be the best! I'm sure you all know they're the safest car out there, but just in case you didn't- they are the safest car to drive. A neighbor of ours was in a terrible car accident a few years ago. When the official accident report was released, it said he most certainly would have died had it not been for the Volvo he was driving.

The engine in the Volvo is designed to "drop out" if there is a frontal collision- this way the engine doesn't come through and crush the passenger. The steering wheel also collapses away from the driver as the air bag is deployed to prevent being crushed that way as well! Yes, it's the A-One standard of safe cars, just completely unaffordable.

So that's my current gluttonous list of needs, er, wants, haha. What are you currently wanting to buy? Remember, we must all do our part to put money back into the market- at least that's what I tell myself!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

A Cold, Sleety, Rainy Day



Monday, January 26, 2009

Top 10 Superficial Things I Need to Survive Life

Spencer is not included in my list because she is ESSENTIAL to my life, as in the air I breathe. These are my superficial must haves.

1. Diet Coke- I don't drink coffee so this is how I get my morning pick me up. Without it, I would shrivel up and die of dehydration.

2. High Speed Internet- Have you ever had to go back to dial up since you went to the good stuff? Trust me, it's like someone slowly ripping a band aid off your head- torture!

3. Flip Flops- I wear them year round, once I got frost bite on two toes after I de-iced and de-snowed my car in a snow storm. Not my brightest move, I know, but in my defense, I was at someone else's house and those were the only shoes I had with me.

4. Caller ID- Because really, who wants to answer the phone if it says Unknown Caller? NOT me!

5. OnDemand- I love it. Well, the prices are a bit steep, but otherwise, it's great.

6. The Blogosphere- Wow, I really can't say enough about how much it means to me to read your blogs. It provides me with entertainment, insight, creativity, and genuine friendship. So thank you to everyone who's reading this and to everyone who I love to read about.


7. The Pillow- I went to Peru when I was 18 for a mission trip. There was no room for me to bring a pillow, and of course, none were provided, being that I slept on a mat on top of a slab of wood. . I slept on the crook of my arm every night and I am talking about some seriously sore shoulders when I woke up each morning. The upside of this was that can now successfully sleep without a pillow, but I also appreciate them A LOT more- flat, hard, soft, down, tempur-pedic, iso-cool, decorative, etc.- I love them all.

8. Pedicures- I used to get them a lot more frequently before Spencer, I think I've only had a couple since she came along. But I love them, and if I had the time and money, I would go every three weeks.

9. Anti-Aging Products- I've always been a bit of a freak about the idea of aging and wrinkles, especially since I'm fair skinned and have freckles, and I started using anti-wrinkle eye cream when I was 18. I thought it would be best if I got a jump start on it; prevention instead of correction. I'm pleased with the results, I hardly have any lines on my face, and there are none near my eyes.

10. Pull-n-Peel Twizzlers- The best "bad for you snack." It's delicious, but fat-free!

What are your favorite superficial things?

Sunday, January 25, 2009

The Weekend in Pictures




That looks says TROUBLE!







Made another loaf of bread, same recipe as before, I just used white flour instead of whole wheat flour. This is obviously the before picture.





The after picture. I know whole wheat bread is better for you, but man, this bread was G-O-O-D!








I bought this mini-apron for Spencer at Target for... drumroll please... $2.00! It's really cute, I can't wait to actually get a picture of her wearing it.







It was a cold and dreary Sunday.







Here's to more freezing cold days ahead, the weather report does not resemble Spring, to put it mildly.




Bride Wars




I went to see Bride Wars with my best friend, Sara, today! Saturday didn't quite work out, so we went today. Maybe it's because I never went to movies on Sundays, but I was really shocked how many people were there.


We waited in line for about 10 minutes at the kiosk and when we got to the front, we found out it only took a charge card. And of course all I had was cash!


So it was back outside for us- we had to wait in a long cold 15 minute line. I think it was worth it, it felt good just to get out for some adult time. And the movie was so good! It was the perfect escape movie, funny and happy. I totally recommend it if you are looking for a fun movie.


I'm now back on the couch, Spencer's in my lap asleep. All is right with the world.

Friday, January 23, 2009

TGIF


As a child of the 80's, TGIF held a lot more meaning than just "Thank Goodness It's Friday." It actually meant 2 solid hours of my favorite ABC comedies- Full House, Family Matters, Perfect Strangers, and whatever show could survive the 9:30pm slot- Hangin' With Mr. Cooper was the last one, I think.



Now that I stay at home with Spencer, Fridays really have very little meaning anymore. They're just like any old day of the week, Saturdays too, for that matter. But this weekend I'm getting a little adult time and I'm so excited!!!!!!!!



My mom is going to watch Spencer for a few hours on Saturday and I'm going to a movie! A real movie! I haven't been to the theater since before Spencer was born. I know, right, that's crazy!



It's rare that I'm ever without Spencer, she's very attached to me and I like having her around. I'm NOT complaining about this, I love having her with me, but sometimes I just need a little "me time." Not much, just a few hours, to rejuvenate myself.



Did I mention how excited I am to go see a movie? Pretty freaking EXCITED!!



Any suggestions on what I should see? Something happy or funny or romantic- nothing that will make me sad and depressed. Leave your suggestions please and have a fantastic weekend!



Thursday, January 22, 2009

I Made Bread and It was Good!


I was feeling adventurous the other day and I decided to make a loaf of bread. It was a lot easier than thought it would and it was kind of fun to make. Spencer really liked it when I was kneading the dough, she got a real kick out it!






I even gave her some of her own to knead, fully expecting her to eat it, but she didn't- she tried to imitate me. It was really cute and she started laughing so hard that she got the hiccups. It was a good moment in my road to becoming domesticated, well at least semi-domesticated.





Since making my organic honey wheat bread, I have made three other loaves! I'm pretty shocked myself. Even more surprising, they are actually really good. I rarely like anything I make, so this was a welcome change. The recipe I used is posted below, I hope it works for you like it did for me!




Ingredients

  • 1/3 cup of very hot tap water
  • 1 tbsp Honey
  • 2 and 1/2 tsp. of yeast
  • 1/2 cup of boiling water
  • 1 tsp. of salt
  • 1 cup of Honey
  • 1/3 cup of Canola Oil
  • 1/3 cup of dry milk
  • 1/2 cup of hot tap water
  • 3 and 1/2 cups of whole wheat flour


1. In a medium sized bowl, mix the 1 tbsp of honey, 1/3 cup of very hot tap water, and the 2 and 1/2 tsp. of yeast. Stir to combine and let sit for 5 minutes.





2. In a larger bowl, mix the salt, honey, canola oil, and milk.





3. Next, whisk in the boiling water. To cool the mixture down, whisk in the 1/2 cup of hot tap water.





4. Mix in the yeast mixture with a wooden spoon.





5. Add the whole wheat flour one cup at time. After each cup added, stir to combine.





6. Once you're done mixing and combining, start kneading your dough on a floured surface. Sprinkle with flour consistently as you knead. You'll probably need to knead, haha, for about 10 minutes.





7. Once your dough is nice and spongy, place in an oiled bowl. Cover it and put it in the microwave for an hour.





8. Make sure your dough has at least doubled in size, if it hasn't let it sit in the microwave, or other warm place, until it has doubled. Next comes the fun part! Punch it! Get all the air out and then shape it into your bread pan.





9. After your dough is in the bread pan, cover it again and stick it back in the microwave for about 2o minutes- until it looks like a nice sized loaf, but not too big or else it will take forever to bake.





10. Bake on 350 for 20 minutes. Then cover with tin foil for another 20 minutes.





11. Make sure your bread is done in the center, if it's not, stick it back in the oven, covered, for another 5-8 minutes. And Viola, your bread is finished!



Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Inauguration Hangover


I was drunk with patriotism yesterday- giddily and all-consuming drunk! No, I did not imbibe any spirits, not even a sip of anything harder than my beloved diet coke, it was the power, the magnitude of the day that did me in. And today, my brain and my body hurt like it hasn't since college.


I felt compelled to take in every aspect of the Inauguration. I woke up at an hour before Spencer so I get myself together and before she commanded my attention. CNN stayed on all day, and I rewound the more poignant moments over and over again. It was one of those moments that I knew Spencer would ask me about when she was older, and I wanted to be able to tell her everything that wanted to know.
She happened to be taking her mid-morning nap when President Obama was getting ready to take the Oath of Office. Against my better judgment, I woke her up out of a deep slumber so that she could witness this historic event. I could just hear her now saying to me down the road, "You let me sleep through it? What were you thinking?"

Because that's exactly what I would have said to my mom. Unfortunately, this did not go well and she cried for the next 15 minutes, but still, she watched it!

While trying to entertain her for the rest of the day, I diligently took notes and wrote down my feelings on particular aspects of the day, my favorite quotations, etc. You would have thought I was going to be given a test on it. When night came, it was onto the Balls! I love seeing the dresses and the pageantry of it all. Around 12:30am my eyes began to droop and I dozed off listening to the 100th version of "At Last" by Etta James.

Oh, the agony of this morning! My brain hurts, my eyes hurt, and I never want to hear At Last again. I'm hoping by tonight or tomorrow this "ennui" will be gone and I will be able to watch CNN without feeling like my head is going to explode. But what a great day it was, a truly great day. One that I will never forget as long as I live, one that has renewed my faith and given me hope about what a great nation we can be.
 
I wouldn't trade this patriotic hangover for anything! I am so glad that my inner government-o-phile returned, especially since I thought it was long gone. While I would have loved to have been in D.C. with my friends, there was something really special about being able to share this moment with my daughter, even if she won't remember it and she screamed through many of the important parts.

So, yes my head hurts, but just like in college, the 24 hours of pain is well worth the lifetime of good memories!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Obama Love



President Barack Obama's Speech



My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land - a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many.

They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America - they will be met. On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn. Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions - that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act - not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect.

To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West - know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment - a moment that will define a generation - it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends - hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism - these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility - a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence - the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed - why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

“Let it be told to the future world…that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it].”

America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

Thank you. God Bless You. And God Bless the United States of America.

YES, We Can


Lift every voice and sing


Till earth and heaven ring,


Ring with the harmonies of Liberty;


Let our rejoicing rise


High as the listening skies,


Let it resound loud as the rolling sea.


Sing a song full of the faith that the dark past has taught us,


Sing a song full of the hope that the present has brought us,


Facing the rising sun of our new day begun


Let us march on till victory is won.


Saturday, January 17, 2009

Say a Little Prayer for You

While I am still a bit "faith challenged" these days, I have always believed in the power of prayer. I don't know if it's Jesus listening to these prayers or just some kind of Karmic cycle, but when life gets tough, I still pray.



Even if you don't don't believe in a higher power, or if you do, please pray or take moment to send some good vibes to Baby Harper and Baby Brayden. These little, precious newborns need all the help they can get.



Both babies were supposed to be healthy, as there were no indicators prior to their birth that there were problems. They are each clinging to life, fighting to breathe with lungs that just aren't up to snuff. I can't even imagine the pain that their mothers are going through. Each time I think about it I just go and hug Spencer. She was a month early and so much could have gone wrong, but it didn't. I don't know how I could have gone on if something had happened to her.



So if you have a moment, please check out their blogs and PRAY for both moms and their babies!


Friday, January 16, 2009

Maybe I Should Work for a Wildlife Refuge

I dare you to watch this video and not get misty eyed. Spoiler Alert, no one dies, it's a happy video!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Freezing

I live in Virginia.


It's currently 16 degrees. Tomorrow it's supposed to be 7 degrees. 7 DEGREES!


To make matters worse, Spencer's not feeling well. Which translates into "I'm under house arrest."


The poor girl is cutting two molars right now, and she is very miserable. For the past three nights she has woken up around 1am crying. Then she won't go back to sleep 4am. Three nights in a row this has happened!


I'm hoping tonight will be better, because I need to get a decent night of sleep. The combination of being cooped up, a sick baby, little sleep, and single digit temperatures has made me a tad cranky.


I am looking forward to this weekend, I have some new recipes to try out. And for Tuesday! I love the Inauguration, it's such a hopeful time. And the dresses- seeing the Washington Elite trot out in their finest attire.


I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend, stay warm!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Lola B's Boutique


Giveaway at Lola B's Boutique! She has a really great shop and blog with very unique items. Head on over there to get a chance at winning some wonderful treasures!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

The January Blahs


January is the most depressing time of year, at least I think it is. I wouldn't go so far as to say I suffer from Seasonal Affect Disorder, but I definitely get "blah." I've been searching for some ways to help with this, and these are the best ideas that I've found, plus a few of my tried and true tips. Hope they can help with your January Blahs!


1. Decorate the rooms you are in the most, with orange, yellow and red. These are the colors that are in the sun and fire. In the long, dark, cold winter days, these colors will bring a sense of warmth and coziness. Don't think you have to do an extreme home makeover, place mats, curtains, throw pillows, afghans, and slip covers will do the trick.

2. Keep flowers and plants around the house. Not only will they remind you of spring, but doing a little indoor gardening is very calming.

3. I know this isn't want you want to read, but doing a little exercise can go a long way. Just 30 minutes a day raises serotonin levels and reduces stress levels.

4 Eat foods high in Vitamin D, it will boost your energy and decrease anxiety. The best sources are of VD are orange juice, salmon, shrimp, eggs, fortified yogurt, and milk.

5. Try some chamomile flower, it will help you get a good night sleep and decreases your morning moodiness.

6. Keep your insides warm and toasty! Drink tea and eat soup.

7. I like to set short term goals and incentives, last week the premiere of 24 kept me going, as sad as that is. It helps give me something to look forward to and the days seem to blend together less.

8. Go Outside- even if it's cold and you have a million layers on, 10 minutes of natural sunlight will work wonders.


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Aging, Via the Hot Guy Down the Street


My parents have lived in the same neighborhood since I was 10 years old. It was the kind of neighborhood everyone wanted to live in; a pool, playground, tennis courts, and games of flashlight tag during the summer. One of our favorite things to do as we got older was boy hunt. I think I was around 12 when one of my best friends told me she had seen the "hottest hunk ever" outside of the house that was down the street.


12 years old- the way I remember it


I wasn't sure if I believed her, this was the same girl who convinced me that oral sex was a type of kissing, which I believed for quite an embarrassingly long while. (I had a Godly mother, and asking her was NOT an option) She was adamant though, he was the hottest guy she had ever seen, besides Charlie Sheen, who she had met once and was madly in love with him. The topic was forgotten until a few months later when another friend of ours confirmed that there was "a super hot dude" living in that house. She said he was in college, her older sister knew him

Over the next couple of years, before I was driving, I would hope to catch a glimpse of this boy/man, but I never did. His car would be parked outside, but he remained my elusive girlish crush. I forgot about him as I got older, but because I had made a point to see if he was outside each time I passed his house, it became second nature. I wouldn't even think about it, but when ever I'd drive by, I would always slow down and do a quick inspection.

Today, as I was driving, something caught my eye, something raking leaves in a blue windbreaker.

Could this be it?

The moment I have been waiting for since I was 12 years old?

I slowed down to an embarrassingly slow crawl, and as I drove by he looked up and waved!

WAVED! At me!


As I waved back, trying to take in the moment, something seemed "off."

Yes, the person who waved at me was indeed, a "super hot dude." But he was OLD! All these years I had been waiting to see the hot college freshman, it never really occurred to me that he would become a middle-aged man.

Don't get me wrong, this man was definitely handsome. He looks like the kind of guy who could pull a MacGyver with a q-tip and string. But, he was not the young stud I had envisioned all these years.

In my mind, there are some things that don't age. If I imagine playing flashlight tag, we are all 12 years old again. Even though I still know, and see, those people regularly, I always picture us as kids growing up together.

I'm 27 years old, no spring chicken, but it still surprised me that the "hunk" was obviously in his mid to late 30's; a MAN! All these years I had failed to notice when his parents moved out, or when parties stopped happening there, or when the swing set was put up. He was an adult and so was I.

Has anything like that ever happened to you? Where something completely minute in the grand scheme of things turns out to be a giant spotlight?

Monday, January 12, 2009

5 Fast Facts About Me

1. I am an EXCELLENT spider solitaire player. Seriously, I kick butt!

2. When I was 16 I rescued 10 dogs. The first time, I found a litter of 9 puppies left on the side of the road in a box. I promptly brought them all home, much to the dismay of my parents, and found a home for each dog! The second time, I was bringing my friend home from cheerleading practice and as she got out, a puppy jumped in and started licking my face. I brought her home too. We posted fliers everywhere but no one called. We took her to the vet and he said that she had two broken ribs and showed signs of abuse. That was it for me, Josie became my dog! Although to this day, no one in my family believes that she just jumped in my car, but it's 100% true.




3. I have never, not once in my life, won anything in a raffle or giveaway.


4. I have a child and I'm not married, but I've kissed less than 10 people in my whole life.


5. I was in competitive show choir in high school, Touch of Swing, and we were the first runner up in the Showstoppers National Championship, in Orlando, Florida. It required about 15-20 hours a week, for 6 months, but I can still tap dance with the best of them!

Vote for C Jane Enjoy It


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You can vote for C Jane Enjoy It for Best Major Blog in the 2009 Weblog Awards. For those of you who don't know, that's Stephanie Nielson's, aka Nie Nie, sister's blog. Ever since the Nielson's plane crash, she has been giving us a glimpse into their life and allowing the world to be a part of their recovery.



Reading about their lives has definitely inspired me in many ways, but most importantly, it's taught me to be thankful for every day with my daughter. The whole family has an effervescent love for life that comes through in everything they do. So if you get a chance, go and vote for C Jane Enjoy It!

A Mini Rant- Ann Coulter on The View on Single Mothers

There was a time when I owned an Ann Coulter book, I'm sorry and slightly embarrassed to admit that, but I did. When I found out she was going to be on The View I was intrigued, I thought she would have to be insane to go on that show, but here she is, in all her vitriolic glory. Immediately, she was spouting off about single mothers, saying their children are a "farm team for future criminals and social outcasts."

I know I'm sensitive where this topic is concerned, as I'm a single mother, but I really felt she was just trying to say outrageous things just to get a rise of the hosts and the audience. She went on to say how they're maladjusted, sympathetic to their fathers, and that children of divorce are just future strippers.

I felt my vision getting a little blurry at this point, the rage was building up. First, at The View, for allowing such a horrible woman to pontificate about her hateful ideas, and second, at me, for watching. I couldn't help it, I sat there for the entire 8 minutes she was on. At least she got rail-roaded by them, but it really bothers me that she actually believes my daughter would be better off with her father, as men are more likely to marry than single mothers- giving her a two parent home. That's just INSANE.

Her whole argument is essentially that single women and their offspring are the cause of the majority of society's ills. I won't argue that it's difficult to be a single mother or that more challenges arise because of it, but I certainly don't blame any group for pandemic social problems. To me, the most important thing is how you are raised.

Just because I'm not married to her father doesn't mean I don't believe in marriage- quite the opposite in fact. And if and when I get married, Spencer will know it's for all the right reasons.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

PETA and George

This is why I don't eat lobster.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Cups of History

For as long as I can remember there has been this green coffee cup in my parent's kitchen cabinet. Once, it was part of an entire set belonging to my Papa's sister, who gave them to him before she died. Somehow my mom wound up with two of them when she got married, but by the time I came around there was only one left.

My mom rarely uses it anymore, I think she's afraid she might break it, but it's the cup I remember her drinking of when I was a kid. For Christmas this year, I looked everywhere for one of these cups, but it was difficult because the markings on the bottom were virtually gone.





I finally found one that matched, on Etsy, and another that almost matched. I gave my mom the matching one and I took the other. My idea was to start some kind of family tradition, I think. I've been a collector as long as I can remember, I have a kick ass stamp collection that I started when I was 7 and my grandmother gave me my Dad's collection from when he was a boy. I like collecting different takes on the same thing- I have 13 different copies of To Kill a Mockingbird.

I'm not sure if my Mom appreciated or "got" the gift as much as I thought she would, but I really began to like the idea of collecting these dishes. It somehow makes me feel connected to my family, past and present. Who knows where they're going to go, but I plan on making some room for them!


This is the cup I bought that matches the set. I think it's really cute!



Friendship Friday


Today Spencer gets to hang out with her best friend! Conveniently, her mother is my best friend too!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

My New Shabby Apple Bag



I ordered a diaper bag/purse bag for myself for Christmas. Unfortunately, the one I ordered had sold out by the time they got to placing mine. But the lady who runs the site/store was so amazing. She emailed me apologizing and offered me my choice of a few bags that were similar, but hadn't yet been put up for sale. I chose this one and it is gorgeous and I am the only who has it- the pictures don't do it justice! My favorite part about this bag is that after it serves it's "diaper" purpose, it can serve as my purse!




Up close and personal!




Just in case you can't possibly believe that this was ever meant to be a diaper bag, here's the proof: the changing pad. It's super shiny and very pretty, I can't imagine having to dirty it up with babiness goo.

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Patrick Swayze, Barbara Walters, Weeping Katie

I don't know if anyone watched Patrick Swayze's interview with Barbara Walters, but I did, and it's gotten to me. I think I cried through about 70% of it, especially when they got to talking about his relationship with his wife.

They've been married for 33 years and you can still see the love they have for each other. I think it's amazing for any couple to stay married that long, but I think it's so much more beautiful when that couple's love is apparent to everyone who sees them. I've only ever seen it a handful of times, but they've stayed with me, they've become what I aspire to have one day.


I think a lot of people in my situation, the ones who marry the father and the ones who don't, get married to the wrong person just because it will make things easier. It's hard to be a single mother, it's hard to see families together and it's hard to not be jealous of them. But I have to be an example to Spencer and any relationship I have will effect her; I'm not getting married to anyone unless I see us as an "always." I'm not going to settle for anything less than a love like that because that's not the example, the lesson, I want for Spencer to follow.

When I watched Patrick and his wife together, as they face the knowledge that their time with each other will be cut short, it amazed me how grateful they were. Yes, they were sad and angry and all those feelings that go along with a terminal prognosis, but their commitment and love were already rock solid before that. They didn't look back and see years of their relationship they wished they could change, and they were thankful for that.

It was so moving and I was a crying a mess. On the other hand, it made me think about all of this and really gave me the perspective I've been needing recently. Sometimes I get all "woe is me" but I have so much for which I'm grateful. I never want to look back on these years and have regrets about not appreciating them, or wishing they were easier, or wishing I could go back and redo it all differently. If you haven't watched it, I'm putting a clip at the bottom, but it should be up on abc.com pretty soon.

Oh, and have a few tissues on hand, I double dare you not to cry!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

It's a Soup Kind of Day



It's really cold, windy, rainy, and just plain yucky outside. It's the type of day where you want a fire, a cozy blanket, and a good book/movie and the desire to do nothing, but hole up until the weather meets your approval.

Since I don't have the luxury of vegging out all day, I decided that making some soup would take the place of the fire. I used Nie Nie's Organic Tomato Soup Recipe and tweaked it a bit, but I think it turned out pretty good! We haven't had lunchtime yet, so I don't know if she'll like it or not- and she's the real barometer by which I measure all things.
If you want to make the recipe, it's VERY easy and took less than 15 minutes to make.


Organic Tomato Soup
  • 24 oz tomato purée
  • 2 cups organic vegetable stock
  • 1 cup (a dash more for creamier soup) organic half-n-half
  • sea salt, to taste
  • ground pepper, to taste
  • chopped fresh basil
  • 1/4-1/2 cup (to your liking) of shredded Velveeta Cheese
Heat tomato purée with stock until simmering. Add shredded cheese and stir until is has melted into the soup. Remove from heat and whisk in half-n-half. Season and garnish with mini toasts and basil.

If you don't have tomato stock or tomato purée, here is the easy version!

  • One can of tomato soup
  • Half-n-Half
  • 1/4-1/2 cup of shredded Velveeta Cheese
  • Water
This recipe is not as specific, as it's one I made up myself and I usually just eyeball it.  But here's my best guestimates!  Empty the can of condensed soup into a pot. Fill the can with a little bit of water to make sure you got all of the soup out and pour that into that pot.  This is the trickier part.  Pour in the half-n-half, while stirring, until the soup is the color of pumpkin orange.  Stir constantly until steaming hot and then add the shredded cheese.  Keep stirring until the cheese has melted into the soup. Add little mini-toasts if you like.  Serve Immediately!   If you don't serve it right away the soup starts to get to get a cheese/cream skin on top and that doesn't taste very good.  This only takes like 5 minutes to make and it's one of Spencer's favorite things that I make!


How To Survive Falling Through Ice, Seriously


This morning I was looking through Discovery OnDemand, as Spencer LOVES HI-5, and I saw "How to Survive." I'm intrigued, how to survive what? How to Survive watching even one minute of HI-5? Please, yes, tell me how! I click on it and am met with the How to Survive Falling Through Ice, as well as a few others, like being kidnapped, but that just seemed morose.

I decided to watch the five minute lesson on how to avoid death by frozen water and I'm quite glad I did- I learned some valuable tips. And while I can't see myself ever voluntarily stepping out on any kind of ice that isn't on a rink or driveway, you can never be too prepared! (A good example of this is packing the same things in different suitcases in case the airline loses one- yes, I have done that more than once).

I then felt the need to share my newly acquired knowledge, and since Spencer wouldn't understand, I'm sharing with you, Blogospere.

Prevention

  • Ice must be 4inches thick before it is safe for one person to walk on, 6-8 for a group, but even then unknown elements could still render unsafe. Differing water tempteratures, rocks underneath the ice, and snow accumulation are just a few of the reasons that walking on ice is never 100% safe.
  • If you are stranded and must cross an ice covered body of water, AVOID
  • Slush
  • Grey Ice
  • Snow Build Up on Ice

If you have the unfortunate pleasure of falling through one of these weaker areas of ice, here is what you need to do.


Beat The Freeze
  • COVER YOUR MOUTH AND NOSE: When you fall into ice cold water, the body's natural response is to gasp, letting in cold water, this causes
  • COLD SHOCK, were the body immediately shuts your airway to prevent further ingestion of water, your heart races and blood pressure spike. If this happens, try and stay calm, it will subside in one minute. If you hyperventilate, you are pretty much a goner- relaxing and getting past that first minute is the MOST important thing.


ORIENT
  • Turn and face the direction from which you fell; this is the safest known route
  • DON'T waste time trying to target another area, your body is losing heat at a rate 20-30% times faster than on land

KICK, PULL, AND ROLL

  • DON'T try and swim straight out- it will put too much pressure on already weakened ice. Once you are underneath of the hole, begin KICKING your feet like a dolphin until your body is horizontal with the surface
  • With your arms on the ice, feet still kicking, PULL your body up, while remaining horizontal and ROLL out of the hole to safety.

WARM UP

  • When you get out of the water you will experience "after drop," where the cold blood at your extremities begins to go to your heart.
  • If this happens too fast, you die, so DON'T rub your arms and legs, warm the torso first
  • DON'T go near a fire, try and find a warm, dry place and slowly reintroduce a heat source
  • Strip off your when you are at your warm, dry heat source
  • SLOWLY sip a warm, NOT hot, beverage.

Here's the amazing part, within one hour of being rewarmed, your body will be at 98.6 degrees again! I hope you never fall into the icy tundra, river, pool, lake, etc., but if you do at least you're prepared.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

NPR- Moms Seek Support Online

Spencer's MiMi called this afternoon to let me know that NPR and WAMU were airing a segment on "Tell Me More" about the rising popularity of Mommy Bloggers. I was able to catch the end of it, and they already have it up on the site, so you can hear the whole discussion. It's a pretty interesting segment, with commentary from Leslie Morgan Steiner, author of Mommy Wars, and two other bloggers, Mia Redrick and Gita Saini.

You can listen to it HERE.

Any thoughts?

Caio Italia

After my sophomore year at W&M, I spent my summer studying abroad in Florence, Italy with my best friend from college, Stephie. I just found my negatives from some of the pictures (yes, this was before the digital era) and I'm getting all nostalgic looking at them. I had such an amazing time on that trip, I really don't have any words that could do it justice, so I'll just post a few pictures instead.



You're not allowed to take pictures of The David, but I was able to get this shot before my camera was taken from me.



Vino with lunch in Sienna



Seriously, the smallest shower ever. I didn't even like to shut the door when I was in there, I'd always keep it cracked a little, just in case.


Ciao Italia!



Wine Country


I didn't actually drive this, it was parked on the street and I climbed on- oh, the days of my carefree youth.


The air conditioning on our bus broke down on our way home from Venice during a massive heat wave. It was 101 degrees outside, but inside- it was like being cooked to death in a massive oven!



Gondola Ride in Venice

Monday, January 5, 2009

Coupons, Freebies, and Sales, Oh, My

Proctor & Gamble Buy any of P&G's products that add up to $50 between 12/14/2008 and 1/31/2009. On your original receipts, circle the P&G product(s) and the corresponding prices. Then print and complete THIS form. Finally, mail the form along with the original dated sales receipts with item description and product purchases circled, to:





P&G Year of Savings Rebate


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P&G will mail you a coupon book worth $120 of their products! I think is a great deal. And if there are coupons you will never use, you can always sell them on eBay.




Febreeze Laundry and Odor Eliminator $2 off coupon



Ahava Beauty Bag Gift from Spalook.com Okay, this one isn't exactly being "thrifty," but if you're going to splurge on yourself, this a great way to avoid buyers remorse. Ahava products all come from the Deep Sea region- the minerals they contain are supposed to keep your skin youthful. With any purchase of $100 or more, you'll receive a FREE Ahava gift bag filled with their Time Line samples- value$39. Once again, this is not thrifty spending, it's "treat day" spending on a budget.*

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It's actually a good search engine because it's powered by Google, so don't worry about poor search quality! You just go to the site, download the toolbar and begin searching. With each search, you are eligible for up to 10 Swag Bucks! I usually earn somewhere between 5-10 a day just doing my regular searches. You can also "Shop and Earn," where you shop at the stores they have listed for the day, like Macy's, The Body Shop, Radio Shack, etc. For each $5 you spend you earn 1 Swag Buck. Swag Bucks are redeemable at the Swag Store for things like Barnes & Noble and Amazon gift cards, an iPhone, video games, and other electronics.


Another really great feature they have is Go Green, which rewards you with 300 SB's for trading in your old cell phone- you win and so does the environment! In some cases they repair and redistribute the phones to those in emerging markets or if it's too damaged they use a respected e-waste recycler to responsibly dispose of any and all hazardous materials.

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Pampers- FREE Potty Training Kit plus $5 in coupons

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Happy Savings!


The Last of the Christmas Pictures, Finally


I wish we could keep the Christmas tree up all year long. It makes me happy each time I see it.




Her 4ft tall giraffe. Isn't he cute? She hugged him for a good two minutes and then tried to scale the giraffe and ride him like a horse.




This picture makes me sad! She was so tired Christmas night because she didn't really take a nap all day. I put her in her high chair while I was making her some dinner and warming her soy milk. Two minutes later I looked over and saw this. She was just tuckered out, as the country folk say!






We went to Chuck-E-Cheese with her PGPs and PGGPs. She was a little overwhelmed with all of the kids running around, but she really liked this ride- I think she rode it like 5 times. And I got to play Skee-Ball, my all-time favorite game. It was a fun day.






I was a little afraid when I first put her in it, because it goes up like 8 feet in the air! But she never once was afraid- my brave little girl.




She looks fierce!





Drivin' along in my automobile, my baby beside me at the wheel.