I Heart Faces

This is for the best face photo challenge on I Heart Faces.  I love this picture of Spencer, she looks so angelic- if only I could figure out how to make her behave the way she looks, haha!

On Texting and Driving: A PSA From Me

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I don't usually watch Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, but last there wasn't much on and it somehow ended up on my television.  This episode was about a family who had lost their daughter, Alex Brown, in a single person car accident because she was texting while driving.  It was one of the most heart wrenching things I've ever seen- to see this beautiful, vibrant, senior in high school, friend, sister and daughter lose her life because of something so preventable.  And it's something I've done before.

I've never made a habit of texting while driving and I usually tried to wait until I was at a stoplight or stop sign, but I have done it.  Emma Roberts, the actress, was on the show last night and she said something so profound - I don't remember the exact quote, but the gist of it was that there was nothing that she had ever texted while driving that was so important that she would ever be willing to risk her life or the life of someone else to do it.  And that is so true!

On the show they were handing out pledges for people to sign to promise to not text when they are driving and I mentally signed my own and I would challenge you all to do the same!  To read more information about it you can go here or here.

Spencer Says...

I keep meaning to write down all of Spencer's current adorable sayings and such, but with all of the hullabaloo, I've just been putting it off.  So here they are:

*  I do it every the time. This is what she tells me when she wants to do something that I've just said no to.

*  The louder. AKA, her microphone.

*  You're the best in the world!

*  Excuse me, Mr. Man! or Excuse me, Mr. Ma'am!   She says this when she's trying to get someone's attention at a store or other public location- generally to a stranger. (We're still working on the whole stranger concept.)

*  Jesus loves me because He loves me because He loves me! 

Lemon Lesson Backfire

Last night Spencer decided that she wanted to taste what was in the plastic lemon shaped container in the refridgerator- aka lemon juice concentrate. I told her no over and over again, that she wouldn't like it, but she wouldn't let the lemon juice issue go.  Thinking that once she tasted the extremely sour concentrate she would hate it and spit it out, I thought this might be a good learning opportunity. So I said she could have a tablespoon of it but she couldn't spit it out.

I thought this was going to be the perfect lesson, but of course, I was wrong.  Turns out, my child has an affinity for lemon juice concentrate and she kept asking me for more!  I put some on the spoon and Spencer ate  it like she would  chocolate pudding - in one big gulp.  She smacked her lips a few times and squinted her eyes in quiet contemplation before asking me for "more, please."  I thought that maybe, somehow, there was some switcheroo at the lemon juice factory and lemonade was actually resisding in my bottle- so I tasted it.  Yep, it was super sour lemon juice concentrate and Spencer liked it.

Lemon Lesson: FAIL

The World Keeps Spinning

January and I are still on bad terms.  This week, a friend's mom passed away very suddenly and so did the dad of one of my brother's friends.  It's also the anniversary of this wonderful man's death. Dying, Death, The End.  I don't like any of it, in fact, I hate it.

It's not as if my world has stopped spinning because of the loss of these people- and that's the part I can't wrap my head around.  For some people, the world as they know it is over and it will never be the same again- but for me, nothing has really changed.  Yes, I'm sad, but my life is going on as it normally would.  I hate that we can't avoid death- I mean I really hate.  We hear of someone dying and it causes us momentary pause before feeling the sense of relief that it isn't happening to us.  But the thing is, it will happen to us one day.

Maybe it's because I lost so many people close to me in such a short period of time, that I'm keenly aware of the life altering that happens when someone you love dies.  It doesn't seem fair that your life is forever changed while the person in the car next to you is oblivious to the fact that world has stopped for someone else. Death turns life into a before and after.