Sunday, November 30, 2008

Nie Nie

I am currently consumed by the story of Stephanie and Christian Nielson. Stephanie is a popular "mommy blogger" who was in a terrible plane crash with her husband Christian. She was burned on more than 80% of her body and spent three months in a chemically induced coma. Her husband is doing much better and is in out patient rehab.

If you have never read her blog, you should. It's http://nieniedialogues.blogspot.com/

She has such a positive outlook on life and mothering. A lot of people write about how to get through the day when you're a mom, but when you read her site it's about how to fill each day with as much love as possible. I have never seen or read anything like it. I have gone back and read her archives and I burst into tears quite a few times, knowing how everything turns out, it breaks my heart for her and her family.

This entire weekend her family has been in my thoughts. I can't shake the feeling that I need to be living in the moment, not in the past or future, I don't know what tomorrow brings. It's rare that I say, or write, that someone has made me want to be a better person, but it's happened- and my new goal is to treat each of my days as a gift.

Friday, November 28, 2008

I Got You Babe


Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Christmas Lists

I have stumbled upon the best website ever! Its http://www.kaboodle.com . It allows you to create an online Christmas list. They have a million ideas, but the best part is that you can be on another site, see something you like, and add it to your kaboodle Christmas list. You can sort by priority, add comments, sizes, colors- it's addicting. Then you just send the link to your list to those who ask what you want for the holiday season. I would post my link so you get the idea, but I'm a little embarrassed by the size and outrageousness of it.

Monday, November 24, 2008

I Think Spencer is an Apple Fan

I have been a fan of the PC since I knew the difference between Apple and Bill Gates. Like most children in public school however, we used Apples, big floppy discs, and played mass quantities of Oregon Trail. My family's first computer was the Macintosh LCII, purchased in 1991. When the PC became affordable my dad went out and bought one and I haven't looked back since. By the time I got to high school all the computers were PC and Apple was nowhere to be found. I briefly considered going to the dark side when they came out with colored computers, the iMac, but even the idea of a pink or red one couldn't convince me to leave my Windows.

Years later there was a Spencer who entered my life around the same time Apple stared airing commercials with new songs. If she's crying all I have to do is put on one of those songs and she stops wailing and starts dancing. There hasn't been one song that she hasn't liked. Her favorite was "New Soul" by Naim Yael for the MacAir. She also likes "Shut Up and Let Me Go" by the Ting Tings and Fiest's "1234." I am hoping she won't be seduced by their "hip" advertising campaigns, but it seems almost unavoidable. I hope an ipod will be the extent of her Apple devotion!

The Post I Haven't Wanted to Write

I really didn't want to write this post, but it seems to be an issue for a lot of other people- much more than it is for myself. My ex-boyfriend is getting married today.

I have had years to come to the conclusion that ( for his privacy I'll change his name, but if you know me then you should be able to figure it out) Tim and I were not destined for forever. I guess you could say that when I decided to have Spencer I also decided that Tim and I were not going to have a future. We hadn't been together in years, but it was still something for me to consider when I made that choice, and for me it WAS a choice. With almost everyone telling me to end it, it was something that I considered. And while there was a lot that I had to ask myself about what I wanted out of life, ultimately I knew that if I went ahead with it, there would be nothing that would ever come of Tim and I, marriage wise. It seems that not many other people figured this out because for the past month so many people have been asking me if I'm okay, etc. One person even said, "oh, I'm so sad, I just realized that Tim and Katie aren't going to get married!"

I realize that everyone has my feelings at heart, but really, I'm fine. Yes, we dated for 9 years, but that was 5 years ago. I've had time, space, and a kid. I'm adjusted, I'm okay. What worries me the most in all of this is my friendship with his sister, my best friend. I don't really believe that anything could ever come between us, but it still scares me. When I woke up today the first thing I thought of was "how much longer til Spencer wakes up?" Then it was "who is going to be on The View today?" It was probably a good three hours before I realized it was Tim's wedding day. The second thing I am least looking forward to is the barrage of FaceBook pictures from the wedding that are going to pop up on my news feed. I am just fine with knowing that he's married, I don't really need to see the evidence, you know?

So, to reiterate one more time, I'm fine! I'm not just saying that, I really am. I wish him all the happiness in the world and I hope that is what he's found. I'm not secretly wishing him ill will while writing this either, I genuinely am happy for him. And they lived happily ever after. The End.


Friday, November 21, 2008

My Holiday Gift Guide- Gifts Under $100

Clocky

Perfect for any snooze-button addict, this sneaky alarm clock and clock radio runs and hides when you don’t wake up. He’ll give you 0–9 min. of snooze time, then jump up to 3’ off a nightstand and roll in circles while alarming. And though it might defeat it's purpose, Clocky will stay put if you take the wheels off. Buy Here



The Bullet Antenna to WiFi Converter




You don't have to be a nerd to get excited about the Bullet, but it doesn't hurt. How it works is you plug it in to almost any old antenna and it can turn a radio signal into a strong WiFi connection. The Bullet includes AirOS software to give it some router functionality. The only other thing you need to turn your living room into the local WiFi hotspot is some coffee beans. Buy Here


Beauty Water Shower Purification System™



Beauty Water Shower System, you can have pH balanced water that is free of chlorine, heavy metals, and harmful VOCs, and enjoy increased softness, shine, and manageability, while maintaining the overall health and color of your hair. And it is so easy to install. No wrench needed! I have one of these, and I totally recommend it- it's worth every penny.

Benefits:
-Enhances pH balance.
-Softens the hair and skin.
-Helps preserve hair color.
-Increases shine and manageability of the hair.
-Filter operates on a regulated flow of 2.5 gallons per minute.
Buy Here


Solar Battery Charger



Super sleek and barely bigger than a cell phone, the lightweight aluminum FreeLoader pulls open to reveal two solar panels. Simply charge it by allowing it to soak up some rays. Its internal battery will then power an iPod for up to 18 hours, a mobile phone for up to 44 hours, a PSP for up to 2.5 hours and a PDA for up to 22 hours. That’s a lot of juice for such a tiny gizmo. Once the FreeLoader has emptied its charge just power it up again via the sun. You can also charge it via USB if you're near a computer. Buy Here


Pocket Full of Posies Scarf



You will be the cutest person on the block wearing your colorful posy scarf! Buy Here


GalPal Garment Deodorant Remover




You’re running late, scrambling for the perfect thing to wear, only to discover white deodorant marks along the sides of your garment. Eeek! Gal Pal will remove those marks in seconds. Gently wipe Gal Pal over the deodorant residue, going with the grain of the fabric, and voila, you have just saved yourself time and dry cleaning bills. If the deodorant does not come off completely, dampen the second Gal Pal with water and gently rub the fabric again. A lifesaver for business trips and vacations. Comes with two reusable pads.Works on most fabrics. Silks should be professionally dry cleaned. Pads Measure approximately 3" in diameter. Buy Here


Ultimate Hammer Tool- 9 in 1



So much more than just a hammer, this multi-function tool also contains a plier, knife, scissor, saw blade, file, flat head, and Phillips screwdrivers. Buy Here


Rubber Duck Snow Jogger Boots



You'll want a whole pond of these fashionable boots. Suede accents at toe and heel, with split shaft with adjustable closure for a customized fit. Buy Here


Blossom Coaster Set



These classy, reusable coasters won't break the bank. Hand-pressed in Brooklyn on heavyweight, absorbent beverage board with rubber-based ink that won't run. Set of 8 blossoms printed in assorted colors. Buy Here


B!tch Dog Mat



Lightweight and plush, this Fab Dog mat is great for dogs that just like laying on the floor. On cooler days (or ANY day) your dog can enjoy this super soft plush pillow with the "Bitch" logo. Great alone or as a crate mat. Comes in two sizes - small and medium and one color, pink with white logo. Buy Here


Plant a Tree Holiday Cards

Plant a Tree - Greeting Card with Ornament
Present those who contribute to the success of your business with a gift that grows. For each purchase of this Plant a Tree card and ornament set, one tree will be planted on your recipient's behalf in efforts to restore habitat for wildlife, prevent soil erosion and reduce global warming. This gift is a thoughtful way to show that you care about your employees, customers and associates as well as the world in which they live. The pewter ornament is cast in a nature-inspired design for a memorable keepsake and measures 2 1/2" tall. This Plant a Tree Greeting Card and ornament set is available to order online without personalization. Buy Here


Eye-Soothe™ Tension-Relieving Mask



Warm/cool massaging eye mask soothes away tension and pain. Our Eye-Soothe™ mask uses Air Inflation Technology to gently massage around eyes, forehead and sinuses, alleviating pressure and working away stress. Removable gel insert can be chilled to provide a gentle, cooling sensation or warmed for soothing heat therapy. 15-minute auto shutoff timer. Includes storage pouch. Buy Here


Peace Picture Canvas



Emblazoned with the word for “peace” in more than a dozen different languages, including Spanish, Japanese, Hebrew and Persian, this piece makes a powerful statement for the holidays and beyond. The words are printed in a graphic array of fonts and styles on an unstretched artist’s canvas. Set of four tacks included. Rolls up for storage. 42 x 30". Buy Here






Sarah Palin Pardons a Turkey (and then a bunch get their heads chopped off!)



Tofurkey anyone? I think my turkey days are done.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Old Baby Katie and Spencer


Spencer's First Birthday

My First Birthday


Spencer's "face"


My "face"


Spencer in the pool


Me in the Pool


Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Growing Up Too Fast


My baby looks like a little girl.

Billions and Billions and Billions of Diamonds



I think most people know by now that diamonds actually have very little value. De Beers has a monopoly on the diamond market and in order to keep the prices of diamonds inflated, they restrict the supply that's released for retail purposes. By increasing the demand and then intentionally limiting the supply, they are able to outrageously bloat the value and price of diamonds. If all the diamonds that De Beers had stored away were put on the market today, they would be worth almost nothing.


There are about a billion reasons this infuriates me, Africa being number one, but that is for another rant. Today I read here that De Beers is doubling their ad campaign expenditures in the United States. Their logic being that in an economic crisis people will want to buy something that is "forever," rather than wasting their money on the trends of the day. The LAST thing people need to do is go out and buy a diamond- sorry all you diamond lovers. Go put that that money in a savings account, college savings fund, buy property, gas, etc. and if you must buy precious gems, purchase a ruby, they are the most rare stone. Fun Fact, the phrase "A Diamond is Forever" is the most recognized ad slogan from the 20th century- De Beers coined the phrase in order to increase the public "oh la la" perception of diamonds. In 1939 they launched the first ever ad campaign that linked diamonds and engagements; prior to that, diamonds were not part of an engagement.

A Good Omen



On Saturday I got stopped at a stoplight and when I turned my head I saw this beautiful rainbow. Luckily I had my camera with me, so I rolled down the window and took a picture.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Bad Habit

Awhile ago I extolled the virtues of my DVR. I still love it, but it's caused me to develop some bad, maybe more annoying than bad, habits. It's not very often that I can just sit down and watch an entire uninterrupted TV episode. "Katie Time" only lasts for about 1 hour in the afternoon and from about 9pm until I go to sleep.

In order to maximize this window of opportunity, I have started watching the end of the shows first. I press play, then stop, then skip to end. If I like that particular ending then I'll watch the whole thing, but if I don't like how it ends, I restart it and watch it on 2x fast forward. Isn't that terrible? I don't do it for everything, certainly not for How I Met Your Mother or So You Think You Can Dance, but when I first developed this "habit," it was only for one or two shows that I DVRed. They were for things that I had taped thinking maybe I would watch it if I had the chance.

Somehow over time it morphed from seldom, to occasionally, to semi-regularly, and now it's full blown. It's rare that I watch an entire episode from start to finish. On the plus side, I'm saving time, not rotting my brain with fantasy land ideas, but I also feel like it has affected my level of patience- with everything. When people are talking to me, I just want to 4x fast forward them to the point. Like, "I don't have all day, only three hours are mine, so please don't waste them with drivel!"

That doesn't mean I don't like having nice, stimulating, productive conversations with someone who understands more than 20 words, because I do! But yesterday, for example, I went to Circuit City to pick up a few things for my camera. I had a list of exactly what I wanted, because I don't have the luxury of browsing, and proceeded to pick out my items. I'm not exaggerating that at least 10 different sales persons stopped to ask me if I was finding everything I needed. I'm all for good customer service, but I wanted to scream to everyone, "I am fine! Thank you! If I need your assistance I will let you know! I'm not a witchy-bee, I'm just on a schedule!"

And then other times I want to take my remote my control and press pause on life.  The really beautiful moments keep flying by, they never last long enough and I only get to experience it once. With a DVR, it's okay if you miss something because the phone rings- you can either rewind it and watch it again or you can press pause and it will stay frozen in time until you to return.  If you really loved something you watched, well, you can rewind and start it all over again.  There's no such thing as a lost moment with a DVR.  Why can't I do this with life?  Please, smart geniuses at MIT, invent one of these mechanisms for me. 

I blame my DVR for this, for wanting to skip to the end to make sure it turns out okay, and then go back to the beginning to actually enjoy it. To delete all the things that stink, to pause and stare at gawker moments without shame, and to rewind/rewatch/redo everything that is worthy of "Katie Time." I really don't see a way to fix this, but I'm all open to suggestions!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Quote

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

-- Frank Outlaw

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Vietnam Veteran


I normally watch The View, but I couldn't find the remote this morning. Being the lazy ass that I am, I just watched the channel that was on, which was NBC. I wasn't really paying attention, but then I heard this older man start speaking, and I could tell he was choked up.
I watched the segment, crying almost the entire time. I don't know if I'm just extra emotional today, but this story was really moving. I dare you not to cry!

Proposition H8te


Wonderful commentary by Keith Olbermann regarding Proposition H8te. In 1967, there were 16 states that banned interracial marriage; translation- the parents of our President-Elect couldn't have married in 16 states when they wed each other. CRAZY!

Africa, My Other Patria


I stumbled onto Africa accidentally, She found me. I was able to exempt out of Government 101 and 201 at W&M because I scored a 5 on my Govt. AP Test (it's rare I ever to share that tidbit!). However, my adviser had enrolled me in 201 because she said I need the statistics lab. I was like, "Um, NO!" That 5 came with two months of before school AP practice; translation- for two months I got to school at 6am, where a group of us met with our teacher to write timed essays and review course material. There was no way I was taking 201 for a statistics lab that was part of at least 4 other Govt. classes that I would eventually take. Of course my adviser warned me against this, saying it would be a good slow introduction- I did not listen.

Nothing with me can ever be easy, and because the upperclassmen has already registered for their classes the previous semester, the class I needed was already full. There were no Comparative Politics classes open, but this guy I met told me there was a professor who might let me in- if I could answer a few of his questions to his liking. The day before classes started I went to Professor Ndegwa's office, told him my story, and asked if he would let me into his class. He looked at me thoughtfully, and asked "What do you think of the World Bank?" Um, "WHAT?" I really had no idea what my position was on the World Bank, but I was a Republican. Any kind of world organization was a centralized power, taking said power away from "The State." Using this rationale, I told him that while I was definitely not an expert on the WB, I was no fan of the World Bank. Thank God I didn't tell him the logic I used to answer that question, or else I definitely wouldn't have gotten in, but I didn't, and so he gave me an override into his class.

Professor Ndegwa was from Kenya, and he had the loveliest lilt to his voice- I could listen to him lecture for hours. I happened to do very well in his class, I even got my first, and only, 100 on a midterm. I liked him so much that I wanted to take another class with him the following semester. It turned out the only other class he was teaching was Southern African Politics. I had always been intrigued by Africa, I loved Cry, the Beloved Country; The Heart of Darkness made me want to BAD things to all of those colonialists. But still, I was a Republican, Africa wasn't really on my radar and I had to convince my parents that taking this class was a good idea, and not a waste of their money. The fact that my only A that first semester was in Professor Ndegwa's class, helped tremendously.

The rest is history- I fell in love with Africa that semester. It changed the way I viewed the world, the way I thought about the United States, and even made me question my undying love for Ronald Reagan. I guess you could say it was the first real chink in my Republican armor. That class opened my eyes, it was the proverbial Pandora's Box for me. It took me years to reconcile all of this with myself, of course, but this was where it all started. I used to explain how I could love Africa so much and still be such a staunch Republican- it was hard, but somehow I found a way. One of my best friends used to tell me, in her superior liberal voice, haha, that I was the only Republican she knew that really believed the Republican way was best to really help people/Africa. I never expected to love Africa, I only took that SAP class because I thought I could get a good grade.

Eventually, I would go on to join the African Cultural Society- being their only Caucasian member, and to minor in African Studies. I often wonder whether or not I would have stumbled onto Africa had it not been for Professor Ndegwa, my World Bank Answer, or the random guy who told me about a professor who might let me into his class. Thankfully, and luckily, there were a series of fortunate events that led me to Africa.

Monday, November 10, 2008

The Old and the New


Sunday, November 9, 2008

Rahm Emanuel


I have a new obsession, and his name is Rahm Emanuel. I can't read enough about this guy! I mean, he takes ballet classes (and has since he was a child), volunteered for the Israeli Army during the first Gulf War, and once sent a huge, rotting, dead fish to a pollster he felt had wronged him.




Click for the Top 5 Stories About Rahm Emanuel.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Newsweek Article

I just finished reading a Newsweek article about the election. It's an incredibly long, but moving piece that documents the last two years of the campaign trail- for both sides. I found myself tearing up many times.

For a slightly snarky, but insightful recap, Click Here.

I Think This Says It All



Friday, November 7, 2008

What is She Saying?

Spencer is trying to tell me something- I just don't know what it is. She says the same thing to me, over and over again, "Cac-ke, isssshh shhhhhyyy booo ka!" She looks at me like "why don't you know what this means?" It gets louder and louder and more insistent, but I don't know what it means.

If I repeat it, she laughs and jumps up and down, obviously elated that I'm on to what she wants. This usually turns to tears when she realizes that I don't know what she's saying, I was playing a joke a on her by pretending that I did.

It must really suck to be a baby.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Agism


I found this cool website that automatically ages your photos about 100-150 years.

Katie and Beth, Circa 2000


This is a picture of me and my freshman roommate, taken during election night 2000. Obviously, this was during my rabid republican days.

5 Year Reunion

Does anyone ever think about, or is scared, that if a younger version of yourself met the 2008 version, they would be disappointed?

I just got a letter in the mail from William and Mary and I kinda freaked the frak out. 5 years? That means I graduated from high school 9 years ago (8 yrs currently). How is that possible when I can still remember outfits I wore on certain days?

The main reason this is so upsetting is that if the Katie graduate of 2004 met the Katie of 2008, she would FREAK, like want to curl up and stop living. I haven’t really met any of the goals I had planned for myself. Granted, I had a baby and that derailed a lot of plans, but still. I haven’t changed the world or made my mark.

I have never wanted to be famous, not once has that crossed my mind. I did want to be someone who changed the world in some way for the better. I wanted the right people to know who I was, to say that I made a difference.

I’m glad that I have a year to work on this.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Boost Your Brain Power

  1. Use your non-dominant hand when possible, ex. put your fork in your left/right hand while eating.
  2. Get a lot of sleep and power nap when possible
  3. Block one of your senses, ex. Watch tv on mute, eat blindfolded, watch tv blindfolded.
  4. Learn how to juggle.
  5. Stand up straight
  6. Start a hobby
  7. Create lists that go beyond the grocery store, ex. Top 20 Favorite Songs, If my life were soundtrack it would be..., 100 Things to do Before I meet JC
  8. Take something you really believe in and argue against it
  9. Turn your desktop wallpaper upside down
  10. In addition to crossword puzzles, do logic games, mine sweeper, risk, and sudoku



My Papa on my mom’s side died of Alzheimer’s Disease, as did my Grandma on my father’s side- not to mention the many other great aunts, great uncles, and cousins who also met their fate through the terrible disease.

I figure the odds are stacked against me genetically, but I’m going to do everything humanly possible to try and not let it get me. My brain in probably my best asset, next to my eyes, and the idea of losing control of it scares the shit out of me. So I’m always looking for ways to increase my brain power- I do multiple crossword puzzles day- and look for ways to put of the age at which I get the BIG A.

Chickee Poof Halloween Baby!